THE TROUBLE WITH HAVING A FEELING
Things change. Feelings too change. They take shape from each situation day by day. What we never got used to, became routine as easy as a walk in the park. People change. The trouble with trying to resist changes and wanting things to be as they are, forever if possible, is that you`ll lose. When you lose, it hurts. If you have been losing for the past ages, it`s because you have been denying the true nature of existence itself. Still the feeling of wanting, dominates. How many times you fell and were defeated again and again yet you tend to make the same mistake over and over again.
Perhaps it would be better if you do not ponder in aw at the beginning of a new situation. No matter how much you like it. Nurturing it could lead to another defeat. Unless of course, you have been numbed and immuned by the sickening pain of losing to the nature of existence itself. Changes that is.
Perhaps it would be better if you do not ponder in aw at the beginning of a new situation. No matter how much you like it. Nurturing it could lead to another defeat. Unless of course, you have been numbed and immuned by the sickening pain of losing to the nature of existence itself. Changes that is.
2 Comments:
Somebody said to me - and ive heard it millions of times - that the only thing constant in the world is change. Yep. But change is not always good, right? and not all changes are bad either. We just have to adjust and deal with it however we can. But changes to feelings...now thats the most pianful part, esp in a marriage huh.
How to deal with change? Smile.
Rite on babe... I`m a dead slow changer.. in a marriage too feelings do change.. fer da better or fer da worse fer some.. couldn`t really tell coz there`d be no symptoms at the beginning coz time changes people according to the situation.. thus if ya still have da same feelings when u got started just keep it in yer own private sanctuary deep in yer heart.. unless on the other hand if yer lucky, yer able ta preserve the same feelings with yer spouse like ferever... the changes should be comfortably co ordinated t`gether ..hey don`t listen ta me :p
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